You are most likely reading this because you want to know how to keep a man in love with you forever. You want the kind of love that deepens between you every day, where you both are happy in the relationship.
So how do you do that? How do you make love grow between you – and make it the kind of love that stays strong even through the difficult times?
Here’s what to do:
Make sure you are compatible
Mutual compatibility is the number 1 most important factor in whether love will blossom, and whether a relationship will go the distance. If you’re not compatible with each other, the relationship isn’t going to last. If you are compatible, things will work between you even when times are tough and things get hard
Without compatibility, no relationship can last.
The infatuation that you feel for each other at the beginning of the relationship will eventually fade, and you’ll wind up falling apart. Love him the way he wants to be loved
Be your best self
Make being your best self a habit. Be your best self physically and emotionally. Be physically fit and healthy, and deal with your issues so you bring your best and happiest self into the relationship, making it one your guy wants to stay in.. if you’re not taking care of yourself, that’s a reflection on how much you value yourself, and if you don’t put a high value on yourself, why should he?
Be Someone That He Can Confide In
In order for him to build a deep bond with you that stands the test of time, he has to feel like he can tell you anything. The most important aspect to building that bond is making him feel safe when he tells you things. When he feels totally safe about telling you anything, it creates a deep bond between you that is very difficult to break.
Have many sources of happiness
A relationship should be a part of your life and not your entire life. Two people should already be happy and satisfied with their lives before they get into a relationship, so that they bring their happiness together and share it with each other. The relationship shouldn’t be your only source of happiness. If it is then that’s a recipe for disaster.
Have a fun and fulfilling life outside of the relationship. You can’t extract happiness from a relationship; happiness is something you bring into the relationship.
Don’t chase him or force things
Chasing a man is not going to make him feel inspired to ‘lock you down’ or fall deeply in love with you unless you inspire him. The way to inspire him is to show him you’re worth it… that you’re a catch that any man would be lucky to have, and that he has to ‘win’ you if he wants you.
By matching his level of commitment and only committing to him if he commits to you, you save your self-esteem and you force him to step up if he wants you.