Before you try getting a man to miss you, you must first understand the psychology behind how to make a man miss you. What makes you miss someone? Like they say “Absence makes the heart grow fonder” but this doesn’t mean you have to cut him off totally.
Often getting a man to miss you is nothing more than playing a few little mind games with him. If you want him to miss you there are a few ways to make that happen.
Stop all communication
It’s not a walk in the park trying to stop communication from someone you care about and always want to be in constant communication with.
But if you really want him to miss you, then give him time to miss you. He can’t miss you if you keep communicating with him. So give him a reason to miss you. Put the calling and texting on hold. If you continue reaching out, he will never have the reason to miss you.
Nurture your own goals & passions
Do not put all your energy and focus on him. Men admire a woman who has her own life together and feels as passionate about it as she does about him.
If you find yourself spending 80 – 90% of your time thinking about him or coming up with ways to impress him, stop! The best way to impress him is to have a life of your own.
Leave him craving for more
When we get a taste of something delicious, we want to taste it again. But if you get to always taste it, you will lose interest no matter how delicious it is. Men want what they can’t have. So give him a taste but do not give it all. Make it challenging for him.
Treat him like a friend, not a flame
He’s used to you fawning over him. Switch things up when you see him and treat him like a good friend instead of the man who your heart keeps longing for.
It may be difficult to hold back your feelings for him but hold back. Be polite but not flirtatious before saying goodbye during your chance encounter. When he realizes he doesn’t have a hold on you, then the wheels will start turning and you’ll be on his mind.
Make him wait before you return his calls and texts.
Responding to his contact right away sends the message that you are just sitting by your phone waiting for him to reach out. Men love a chase so you can’t make it all too easy for him.